Category Archives: Site-News

Few Updates for our Chat Rooms Today

Finally got to roll out some updates to the chat rooms systems that have been on the drawing board for a long time.Many of the changes we things in the backend admin area to keep the systems running faster and having less lag for people getting rooms list and current users listing.

Check out our on site chat rooms; click / tap here.

The change that many of our members may notice, and I hope you all love, is that older rooms will now be automatically removed from the rooms list. Basically if a room is created by one of the users and left empty for more than 24 hours then it will disappear from the rooms list.

This should make it easier for people who are entering the char rooms to find currently active rooms and not be overwhelmed by hundreds of old rooms that have not been used in a long time.

Of course this also means that those of you who wanted to make a room once and have it there day after day and week after week as a regular meetup and hangout area, you will need to remake or recreate the room on a daily basis, although in some cases if the room is used regularly it may stay in the system longer than other rooms that were made and used once days ago.

Seriously appreciate those who send me contact messages when there are any glitches with the chat system! I wouldn’t know there were issues if I didn’t get those messages from you all!

Hopefully these recent updates will keep the system running smoother and faster for longer times, and we can work on other features without worrying about the chats for a while!

backend code updates today

Did some backend code updates today. A bunch of little fixes for many of the code blocks that keeps all the different pieces of this social network running. Nothing is a major change – so hopefully nothing is broken! There is hope that a few little things were fixed for some, however.

If you find something is broken from this update please let me know asap!

I know the videos are still not playing for iphones / ipads, and some mac notebooks / desktops. The good thing is that we found what we think it the cause of that problem. The bad thing is that it’s really fucking complex to fix.

We could just change the code chunk that is what we think is making it not work and reset that, but then all the previous pictures and videos would be broken. It’s hard to explain, but it’s basically something like, our pics and videos are pushed into a media file folder on this web server, and for some stupid reason the IOs devices won’t let them securely play from that folder – so we could take the fast way out and move all current, future and past pics and videos to a new folder where iOS devices will play videos – BUT then that would break all the links to the old pics and videos that everyone has uploaded over the years.

So we are trying to put together a plan to kind of do both and see what we can make happen.

Alos looking at some more things to update in the future. Glad you all are sticking with us as we make things better!

We have a new suggestion page where people can post site suggestions here.

Videos broken for some – working on fixes

We understand that videos are not working for most people who are using apple / iOs devices. After spending a fair amount of time and money trying to fix this – it’s still broken. We are working on the problem – but it may be an issue for apple to make better in future updates – we are not sure at the moment.


We also found that videos posted in groups play okay in the group activity feed, and via the sitewide activity feed – but when you click to an individual video the formatting is way off and they don’t play. We just found this issue Jan 19th 2017 – and we are working on it.

We spent a lot of money on a special video converter thing, but we’re not sure it’s working like it’s supposed to. We are looking at other video converter systems at the moment, and we’ll hopefully have several updates before summer time to make all this much better.

New Sex Acts Interests for Profiles

Testing out an option to add sex acts that people find interesting, enjoyable or curious about, to the profiles. Just added as an optional set of checkboxes that people can select. These are the first ones that came to mind:

Sex Acts

Anal Play
BDSM (in general)
Blow Jobs
Pussy Eating / Cunnilingus
Role Play
Erotic Stories
Dirty Talk
Watching / Being Watched / Voyeur
Sex Toys / Dildos / Objects
Hand Jobs / Finger Fucking
Swinging / Partner Sharing / Swapping
Sex w Cock and Pussy (general hetero sex)
Bisexual Sex – Girl w Girl
Bisexual Sex – Guy w Guy
Gay Men Sex
Lesbian / Gay Women Sex
Group Sex or Gangbangs
Rough Sex
Public Naughtiness
Spanking or SnM

Obviously there are many more in the world, many of these should probably have some kind of flyout sub group of categories to check off as well. This should be a decent start anyway.

What sex acts should we add to this list?

Add your comments in the comment box below, or send me a pm (@admin)

If enough people use these checkboxes, it may make it easier to find people that are interested in similar things.

These should show up as an option for all new members when they register, and should be an option to add for existing members when they ‘edit profile’

Also adds a new text box for “Interests” for profiles as well.

the interests box will turn words into searchable / clickable items eventually. So having more than one person who adds “beach” to their interests text box will make that term a clickable / searchable term.

These are currently testing features – hopefully they are helpful to everyone. Enjoy!

New Security and Spam block

We added a few new security layers and spam blocker things today. If you have a problem logging in, or posting a message, then there could be an issue with the layers / blockers going overboard – so please let me know via private message, or maybe I’ll need to make a contact form as well.

We are looking for extra ways to block spammers and other nefarious people / bots trying to abuse our services here, so more extra security checks are likely coming. In some cases entire countries may be blocked from registering / logging in.

More info on this if people request it.